ARTICLE CATALOG - ONE-SIDED RELATIONSHIP BREAKUP
TO ALL READERS AND VISITORS OF MY RESOURCES, I EXTEND A WARM WELCOME. IN THIS TOPIC, WE WILL DISCUSS SUCH A PHENOMENON IN FAMILY OR RELATIONSHIPS- AS A ONE-SIDED BREAKUP. THAT IS, WHEN THE DECISION TO END THE RELATIONSHIP IS MADE BY ONE OF THE PARTNERS AND IS TERMINATED UNILATERALLY. BLINDSIDING THE OTHER PARTNER WITH THE FACT OF "FINDING THEIR BETTER HALF." WHAT THE "BETTER HALF" EXPERIENCES WHEN FACED WITH SUCH A FACT- WELL, ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE. FROM SIMPLE MISUNDERSTANDINGS TO EXTREMELY NEGATIVE EMOTIONS, SOMETIMES ACCOMPANIED BY TRAGIC CONSEQUENCES. HOW TO AVOID ALL OF THIS, HOW TO CONDUCT ONESELF IN SUCH SITUATIONS, WHAT NOT TO DO, AND HOW TO POSSIBLY PREVENT IT- WE WILL DISCUSS ALL OF THIS IN DETAIL IN THIS ARTICLE.
In this topic, like "One-Sided Relationship Breakup", dear readers, I will also be providing you with some quotes from a well-known poem composed in Kishinev by Alexander Sergeyevich Pushkin, titled "Gypsies". In this poem, the main essence of the "continuation of serious relationships" is reflected. It is of course all exaggerated, with many metaphors used. But the development of serious relationships and their continuation in a marital union is vividly demonstrated. In brief, about this literary work:
===================================================
"The poem tells the story of the love between the Gypsy girl Zemfira and the youth Aleko, who left the 'captivity of stuffy cities' for the freedom of the steppe. For two years, he wanders the steppe with the free-spirited Gypsies and his beloved. Finally, Zemfira's song and a prophetic dream open his eyes to her unfaithfulness. The old father of the girl offers Aleko not to stand in the way of the girl's happiness, citing his own relationship with Zemfira's mother - Mariula. To the children of the steppes, the European's desire to intervene in the natural course of events and try to control them is alien. In another tale, the old man recounts the legend of a poet abandoned in the steppe; Aleko is surprised to learn that it is Ovid, once exiled from Ancient Rome to the Black Sea coast.
Seeing Zemfira with the young Gypsy during their date, Aleko ignores the advice of the old man and kills them both. The Gypsies cannot understand his selfish desire to possess his beloved at the cost of her life: 'Leave us, proud man!'"
- THAT WAS A QUOTE FROM WIKIPEDIA.
Here is the more complete ending:
Aleko, expelled from the camp, leads his life in complete solitude. And constantly cannot come to an understanding of things like "But what is happiness on Earth? Well, okay, you, free people, who have chosen free will, you are not happy either. You are constantly pursued by sorrows, misfortunes, and various twists of fate for which there is no protection. You can't escape your destiny as a whole."
================================================
Such a sad and instructive story. What is it instructive about? Mainly that when two people enter into a relationship, they start to demand each other's "adjustment to their own liking." Starting from the most trivial everyday matters. And constantly on this basis of inexplicable claims towards each other, misunderstandings, disappointments, and so on arise. On the other hand, if you look at it, everything becomes very clear: People simply start to get to know each other better and better. And when serious relationships "evolve" into marriage, all of this becomes even more acute. Since people get closer and know each other even more intimately. "You can't run away from yourself," and "You can't hide needles in a sack," as the folk wisdom goes.
As long as the lovers' minds are filled with love euphoria, everything seems absolutely "trivial." But when all these "trivialities of life pile up and hit hard, over and over again," it becomes very noticeable and palpable. Over time, people's views, tastes, and preferences change due to age and life experiences. This also undoubtedly contributes to changing one's opinion about their previous loved ones. Quoting Pushkin's poem "Gypsies":
========================
Aleko -
Father, she doesn't love me.
Old Man -
Take comfort, my friend: she is just a child.
Your despair is foolish:
You love sorrowfully and with difficulty,
While a woman's heart jests.
Look: under the distant vault
The free moon is wandering;
With a passing glance upon all of nature
It shines equally.
It peeks into any cloud,
Illuminating it so brightly —
And now — it has moved on to another;
And it won't stay there long.
Who will show it its place in the sky,
Saying: stop there!
Who will tell a young girl's heart:
Love one, do not change?
Take comfort.
Aleko -
How she loved!
How tenderly she leaned towards me,
In the deserted silence
She spent the nighttime hours!
Full of childish joy,
How often with sweet whispers
Or intoxicating kisses
She could chase away my melancholy
In a moment!..
And what? Zemfira is unfaithful!
My Zemfira has cooled!..."
=========================
Based on this excerpt, it is evident that one person exhibits their feelings "tyrannically," while the other does so "freely and openly." And it is on this basis that the first "mismatches" in the marital union arise. Typically, when people are in serious relationships, they expect from each other a "mirrored identical" display of reciprocal feelings. However, as we can see from the same poem, this is hardly possible in practice. Exceptions only serve to confirm the rules once again. Initially, male and female perceptions of feelings and emotions noticeably differ. In general, one person expresses their feelings towards the other in their own way, and the other reciprocates in their own way as well. Often, when a couple's relationship transitions into marriage, you may hear "confessions" during sessions with "family psychologists," or even with representatives of these couples: "He/she has grown cold towards me, he/she pays me no attention, he/she is not physically attracted to me, we constantly argue over trivial things, he/she has become completely different, we have become strangers to each other - yet we tolerate each other for the sake of the family and children," and so on.
Additionally, a very common phenomenon is observed where outwardly it may seem like a normal, harmonious family, but in reality, there is nothing left inside it for a long time. People have gone through another phase of aging, aside from all misunderstandings, and have also changed their views, worldviews, feelings, tastes, and so on. And all that remains of the previous relationship is the stamp of an unbroken "marital bond." And that's it. Such cases are not just very common, but are becoming a norm.
There are also other situations where "one half lets everything go and loses interest," as the popular saying goes. Meanwhile, the other half, still feeling attachment and jealousy, suffers from emotional pain and anguish on that basis. The "cooled-off half" openly announces the end of the relationship, or "disappears from the other half's life in English" quietly, without saying goodbye. The abandoned "half" eventually falls into depression, tormented by pain, hurt, feelings of slight, and so on. Sometimes, they are capable of committing irreparable foolish acts, driven by such a state. Once again, I will provide an excerpt - a quote from the same poem:
=============================
Old Man -
Ah, how quickly my youth
Flashed like a falling star!
But you, time of love, passed by
Even faster: just a year
Mariula loved me.
Once near the waters of Kagul
We encountered a foreign camp;
Those Gypsies, pitching their tents
Near our mountain,
We spent two nights together.
They left on the third night, —
And, leaving behind their little daughter,
Mariula went with them.
I slept peacefully; dawn broke;
I woke up, my companion was gone!
I searched, I called - but there was no trace.
Zemfira wept in sorrow,
And I wept — since then
All the young maidens of the world grew cold to me;
Among them, my gaze never
Chose a companion for myself,
And my solitary leisure
I shared with no one.
Aleko -
But why didn't you hasten
Immediately after the ungrateful one
And plunge a dagger into her treacherous heart and those of the predators?
Old Man -
For what? Youth is as free as a bird;
Who can hold onto love?
Joy is given to all in turn;
What was, will not be again.
============================
From this quote, we see that a person who has been abandoned, but with the same outlook on life and a similar worldview, that is, "free and independent," still became a "victim of such a relationship." After such an experience, they did not engage in relationships or build a family again. Such individuals are commonly referred to as "monolovers." There is also a particular state of the soul that people experience when their mind comprehends everything perfectly but cannot personally "digest" such an emotional state.
It is not uncommon to encounter individuals with tyrannical thinking: "For love with love, for betrayal with blood!" Such individuals are capable of committing terrible acts driven by their tyranny. They always demand from their partners the same insane lust and devotion, with the same dedication and consistency. Tragic outcomes often result from such relationships. The root cause in both cases is the mind's inability to perceive and understand reality accurately.
Very often, people seek help in Magic due to "unilaterally ending relationships with them" and request the strongest and most powerful love spells. They do not hesitate to even curse - through orders to a Witch Doctor, those who have left them. Here, the presence is not so much of an insatiable feeling of "love" but rather an excess of personal selfishness. On the other hand, they can also be understood, especially when they were in "fake relationships" with a person for the purpose of "using" them.
When a person orders to bring back their departed "other half," they must immediately realize that the previous relationship will not be the same. The enchanted "second half" will be there, and intentionally both parties will temporarily forget the "act of unilateral termination of the relationship." However, the key point is TEMPORARY. Despite this "crack" being "patched up" temporarily, it will still linger in the memory of both sides. This will shape future relationships of a different kind: resentment and hurt for one person, and weakness, shame, guilt, and the like for the other. Dear Readers, do you think such "relationships" will develop into long-lasting and happy ones? The answer is clear and unequivocal without further commentary.
In order for relationships to last longer, and for mutual interest between both "halves" to not diminish, both parties must work on it. It is preferable for both "halves" to be involved. To achieve harmony in relationships with someone, one must find and develop inner harmony within themselves, with their "own nature." Understanding your partner is also necessary, and even better - mutual understanding from both sides. This also requires significant self-improvement. This will also help determine the true intentions of those who want to build relationships with you and who are willing to accept them. It will also help determine who your chosen one truly is.
It is believed that Magical assistance in this matter usually relies on the indications of the Horoscope, Zodiac, Vector Ring, and so on. However, these are only theoretical assumptions for actions that are just some hints. Magical influence affects the mind, feelings, and energy channels of the subjects. A more global impact is on destinies— their connection. How to live with an enchanted person, how to relate to them - you can also read about this on my website in another article: LIFELONG LOVE SPELL.
If you have decided to order a love spell due to emotional pain or for any other motivations for these actions, please kindly follow the link: ORDER LOVE SPELL.
TO ALL READERS AND VISITORS OF MY RESOURCES, I WISH YOU HAPPINESS, WELL-BEING, AND AN ABUNDANCE OF POSITIVITY IN EVERYTHING! THIS IS THE MAGICIAN THANATOS, ALWAYS HAPPY TO SEE YOU AS GUESTS ON MY WEBSITES! UNTIL OUR NEXT MEETING!
TO ALL READERS AND VISITORS OF MY RESOURCES, I EXTEND A WARM WELCOME. IN THIS TOPIC, WE WILL DISCUSS SUCH A PHENOMENON IN FAMILY OR RELATIONSHIPS- AS A ONE-SIDED BREAKUP. THAT IS, WHEN THE DECISION TO END THE RELATIONSHIP IS MADE BY ONE OF THE PARTNERS AND IS TERMINATED UNILATERALLY. BLINDSIDING THE OTHER PARTNER WITH THE FACT OF "FINDING THEIR BETTER HALF." WHAT THE "BETTER HALF" EXPERIENCES WHEN FACED WITH SUCH A FACT- WELL, ANYTHING IS POSSIBLE. FROM SIMPLE MISUNDERSTANDINGS TO EXTREMELY NEGATIVE EMOTIONS, SOMETIMES ACCOMPANIED BY TRAGIC CONSEQUENCES. HOW TO AVOID ALL OF THIS, HOW TO CONDUCT ONESELF IN SUCH SITUATIONS, WHAT NOT TO DO, AND HOW TO POSSIBLY PREVENT IT- WE WILL DISCUSS ALL OF THIS IN DETAIL IN THIS ARTICLE.
In this topic, like "One-Sided Relationship Breakup", dear readers, I will also be providing you with some quotes from a well-known poem composed in Kishinev by Alexander Sergeyevich Pushkin, titled "Gypsies". In this poem, the main essence of the "continuation of serious relationships" is reflected. It is of course all exaggerated, with many metaphors used. But the development of serious relationships and their continuation in a marital union is vividly demonstrated. In brief, about this literary work:
===================================================
"The poem tells the story of the love between the Gypsy girl Zemfira and the youth Aleko, who left the 'captivity of stuffy cities' for the freedom of the steppe. For two years, he wanders the steppe with the free-spirited Gypsies and his beloved. Finally, Zemfira's song and a prophetic dream open his eyes to her unfaithfulness. The old father of the girl offers Aleko not to stand in the way of the girl's happiness, citing his own relationship with Zemfira's mother - Mariula. To the children of the steppes, the European's desire to intervene in the natural course of events and try to control them is alien. In another tale, the old man recounts the legend of a poet abandoned in the steppe; Aleko is surprised to learn that it is Ovid, once exiled from Ancient Rome to the Black Sea coast.
Seeing Zemfira with the young Gypsy during their date, Aleko ignores the advice of the old man and kills them both. The Gypsies cannot understand his selfish desire to possess his beloved at the cost of her life: 'Leave us, proud man!'"
- THAT WAS A QUOTE FROM WIKIPEDIA.
Here is the more complete ending:
Aleko, expelled from the camp, leads his life in complete solitude. And constantly cannot come to an understanding of things like "But what is happiness on Earth? Well, okay, you, free people, who have chosen free will, you are not happy either. You are constantly pursued by sorrows, misfortunes, and various twists of fate for which there is no protection. You can't escape your destiny as a whole."
================================================
Such a sad and instructive story. What is it instructive about? Mainly that when two people enter into a relationship, they start to demand each other's "adjustment to their own liking." Starting from the most trivial everyday matters. And constantly on this basis of inexplicable claims towards each other, misunderstandings, disappointments, and so on arise. On the other hand, if you look at it, everything becomes very clear: People simply start to get to know each other better and better. And when serious relationships "evolve" into marriage, all of this becomes even more acute. Since people get closer and know each other even more intimately. "You can't run away from yourself," and "You can't hide needles in a sack," as the folk wisdom goes.
As long as the lovers' minds are filled with love euphoria, everything seems absolutely "trivial." But when all these "trivialities of life pile up and hit hard, over and over again," it becomes very noticeable and palpable. Over time, people's views, tastes, and preferences change due to age and life experiences. This also undoubtedly contributes to changing one's opinion about their previous loved ones. Quoting Pushkin's poem "Gypsies":
========================
Aleko -
Father, she doesn't love me.
Old Man -
Take comfort, my friend: she is just a child.
Your despair is foolish:
You love sorrowfully and with difficulty,
While a woman's heart jests.
Look: under the distant vault
The free moon is wandering;
With a passing glance upon all of nature
It shines equally.
It peeks into any cloud,
Illuminating it so brightly —
And now — it has moved on to another;
And it won't stay there long.
Who will show it its place in the sky,
Saying: stop there!
Who will tell a young girl's heart:
Love one, do not change?
Take comfort.
Aleko -
How she loved!
How tenderly she leaned towards me,
In the deserted silence
She spent the nighttime hours!
Full of childish joy,
How often with sweet whispers
Or intoxicating kisses
She could chase away my melancholy
In a moment!..
And what? Zemfira is unfaithful!
My Zemfira has cooled!..."
=========================
Based on this excerpt, it is evident that one person exhibits their feelings "tyrannically," while the other does so "freely and openly." And it is on this basis that the first "mismatches" in the marital union arise. Typically, when people are in serious relationships, they expect from each other a "mirrored identical" display of reciprocal feelings. However, as we can see from the same poem, this is hardly possible in practice. Exceptions only serve to confirm the rules once again. Initially, male and female perceptions of feelings and emotions noticeably differ. In general, one person expresses their feelings towards the other in their own way, and the other reciprocates in their own way as well. Often, when a couple's relationship transitions into marriage, you may hear "confessions" during sessions with "family psychologists," or even with representatives of these couples: "He/she has grown cold towards me, he/she pays me no attention, he/she is not physically attracted to me, we constantly argue over trivial things, he/she has become completely different, we have become strangers to each other - yet we tolerate each other for the sake of the family and children," and so on.
Additionally, a very common phenomenon is observed where outwardly it may seem like a normal, harmonious family, but in reality, there is nothing left inside it for a long time. People have gone through another phase of aging, aside from all misunderstandings, and have also changed their views, worldviews, feelings, tastes, and so on. And all that remains of the previous relationship is the stamp of an unbroken "marital bond." And that's it. Such cases are not just very common, but are becoming a norm.
There are also other situations where "one half lets everything go and loses interest," as the popular saying goes. Meanwhile, the other half, still feeling attachment and jealousy, suffers from emotional pain and anguish on that basis. The "cooled-off half" openly announces the end of the relationship, or "disappears from the other half's life in English" quietly, without saying goodbye. The abandoned "half" eventually falls into depression, tormented by pain, hurt, feelings of slight, and so on. Sometimes, they are capable of committing irreparable foolish acts, driven by such a state. Once again, I will provide an excerpt - a quote from the same poem:
=============================
Old Man -
Ah, how quickly my youth
Flashed like a falling star!
But you, time of love, passed by
Even faster: just a year
Mariula loved me.
Once near the waters of Kagul
We encountered a foreign camp;
Those Gypsies, pitching their tents
Near our mountain,
We spent two nights together.
They left on the third night, —
And, leaving behind their little daughter,
Mariula went with them.
I slept peacefully; dawn broke;
I woke up, my companion was gone!
I searched, I called - but there was no trace.
Zemfira wept in sorrow,
And I wept — since then
All the young maidens of the world grew cold to me;
Among them, my gaze never
Chose a companion for myself,
And my solitary leisure
I shared with no one.
Aleko -
But why didn't you hasten
Immediately after the ungrateful one
And plunge a dagger into her treacherous heart and those of the predators?
Old Man -
For what? Youth is as free as a bird;
Who can hold onto love?
Joy is given to all in turn;
What was, will not be again.
============================
From this quote, we see that a person who has been abandoned, but with the same outlook on life and a similar worldview, that is, "free and independent," still became a "victim of such a relationship." After such an experience, they did not engage in relationships or build a family again. Such individuals are commonly referred to as "monolovers." There is also a particular state of the soul that people experience when their mind comprehends everything perfectly but cannot personally "digest" such an emotional state.
It is not uncommon to encounter individuals with tyrannical thinking: "For love with love, for betrayal with blood!" Such individuals are capable of committing terrible acts driven by their tyranny. They always demand from their partners the same insane lust and devotion, with the same dedication and consistency. Tragic outcomes often result from such relationships. The root cause in both cases is the mind's inability to perceive and understand reality accurately.
Very often, people seek help in Magic due to "unilaterally ending relationships with them" and request the strongest and most powerful love spells. They do not hesitate to even curse - through orders to a Witch Doctor, those who have left them. Here, the presence is not so much of an insatiable feeling of "love" but rather an excess of personal selfishness. On the other hand, they can also be understood, especially when they were in "fake relationships" with a person for the purpose of "using" them.
When a person orders to bring back their departed "other half," they must immediately realize that the previous relationship will not be the same. The enchanted "second half" will be there, and intentionally both parties will temporarily forget the "act of unilateral termination of the relationship." However, the key point is TEMPORARY. Despite this "crack" being "patched up" temporarily, it will still linger in the memory of both sides. This will shape future relationships of a different kind: resentment and hurt for one person, and weakness, shame, guilt, and the like for the other. Dear Readers, do you think such "relationships" will develop into long-lasting and happy ones? The answer is clear and unequivocal without further commentary.
In order for relationships to last longer, and for mutual interest between both "halves" to not diminish, both parties must work on it. It is preferable for both "halves" to be involved. To achieve harmony in relationships with someone, one must find and develop inner harmony within themselves, with their "own nature." Understanding your partner is also necessary, and even better - mutual understanding from both sides. This also requires significant self-improvement. This will also help determine the true intentions of those who want to build relationships with you and who are willing to accept them. It will also help determine who your chosen one truly is.
It is believed that Magical assistance in this matter usually relies on the indications of the Horoscope, Zodiac, Vector Ring, and so on. However, these are only theoretical assumptions for actions that are just some hints. Magical influence affects the mind, feelings, and energy channels of the subjects. A more global impact is on destinies— their connection. How to live with an enchanted person, how to relate to them - you can also read about this on my website in another article: LIFELONG LOVE SPELL.
If you have decided to order a love spell due to emotional pain or for any other motivations for these actions, please kindly follow the link: ORDER LOVE SPELL.
TO ALL READERS AND VISITORS OF MY RESOURCES, I WISH YOU HAPPINESS, WELL-BEING, AND AN ABUNDANCE OF POSITIVITY IN EVERYTHING! THIS IS THE MAGICIAN THANATOS, ALWAYS HAPPY TO SEE YOU AS GUESTS ON MY WEBSITES! UNTIL OUR NEXT MEETING!
